First Kiss - Wow or Uh-oh?

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Registered: 02-26-2011
First Kiss - Wow or Uh-oh?
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Sun, 01-22-2012 - 2:53am

I read an article (probably by a college student) online tonight.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 12:11pm

Since kissing really turns me on I'd find it difficult to date a man who was a bad kisser.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 12:19pm

Fun story, Music!

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 12:33pm

Some are bad kissers but good in bed.

dragowoman

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 6:06pm
It doesn't have to be earth-shattering, but if I don't feel anything, there probably won't be a second.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 6:43pm

Good Kissing is def. a good thing (lol)

When I was about 19 the boy next door. Yes he was right next door had just come back from war. (vietnam) . He was gorgeous and he and I started hanging out as friends.. Now I had a boyfriend from HS at the time. Well? After a few months of me and Mr.Smith (friend next door) that was his real last name (Smith) he sort of tried to kiss me over and over.. Well? He was cute and nice and lovely but when he kissed me NOTHING.. Nothing.. I was pretty upset because he was the most gorgeous creature in the neighborhood but we had zero chemisty.. To this day I also thought could we have just tried to make it work? by the way we are friends on facebook now and he has been married for 30 years and my bff just told me he has cancer. He grew up to own his own company and all.

I also dated a guy who was not so good looking . He was so skinny and had a job in the phone company and was a sort of mess yet he was the best kisser in the world and we had the greatest chemistry ever.. and he was so kind, gentle and lovely and sweet.

So I guess its just all relative right??

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 7:41pm

Yeah, but if you feel nothing

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 8:02pm

I might have read your post wrong but if I read it right then yes there has to be some animal attraction whether the other person is short, fat, bald, ugly, cute, tall, nice , kind or gentle or whatever.

I went on a date last April with that werid guy who yelled at me . But on the first date he planted a kiss on me and it was pretty good and I felt something.. Too bad he was a nut job..

When a doctor was checking my bp last week he flashed this cute smile and I thought for a second wow I could totally kiss this guy now and i know it would be good..and he

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 8:24pm

You and Katy Perry!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 8:34pm

You just reminded me of when I was a teenager also and one of my bff;s and I were lounging in a bed and talking. Well? I wanted so bad to just kiss her and feel her up. I never did cause she would have smashed me but I felt such an attraction to her. I think it was because we were spending so much time together and they say when you spend so much time with someone something is bound to happen whether you are male or female..

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 8:38pm

That happens.

dragowoman

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