Flakey guy
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| Fri, 04-13-2012 - 4:14pm |
A couple of weeks ago I received a funny phone call from a guy I met on OLD last July. Here's the timeline of our interactions:
July: We had a date, liked each other. He cancelled the second date because he had to see his daughter, but I was unable to see him the week later. So he sent me an email saying that it can't be that hard to meet and that he's taking it as that I'm not interested or not over my ex. I explained him that it wasn't true and we had a second date. After that, we talked by phone, but my son was taking a bath and I told him I was going to call him back. I did, but no answer. And he didn't call back.
October: He calls me and tells me that he was busy starting his own business (he told me about it before) and if we could meet. I told him I was busy for the next 2 weeks
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I don't chalk all this up to a lack of interest, but rather a lack of clarity and/or maturity on his part.
I would be done. He sounds flakey and passive aggressive. But, it's up to you of course.
So the flake didn't call back LOL. I'm kind of curious if that was his last appearance and he finally deleted my number or whether I'll hear from him again with some other excuse about his dissapearance.
no, I didn't write it very well. I obviously
Actually I am pretty anal when it comes to dating. I absolutly want the guy to be consistenly interested, otherwise, I'm not. And in general, I think that when people dissapear (friends included), it's a clear sign that the're just not that interested and I get offended. Because even if life gets in a way, when you consider someone important, you let them know.
I see where you are coming from, and you're right...diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks.
Ha ha
WEll I read the post again and I dont see anything harmful or anything.. Well that is me. We all have different views on this stuff and we agree to disagree I guess.
I believe I have led a more of a Bohemian dating and relationship lifestyle.. I have had my share of flakes..Flakes could be nice guys and you never know.. ??
But oh well to each his own.. (lol)
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