Flirting 101
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| Mon, 07-16-2007 - 3:34pm |
Hey Everyone!
I have a question... how much flirting is too much?
I am struggling lately because I am seeing this new guy, we've only gone out once but tons of text messages have been exchanged (I really wish texting didn't exist!) and all of a sudden I am skiddish about innocent flirting. I've always been good at flirting, double entendres, jokes, body language. But now I am so worried that if I elude to sex or being sexual or liking him "like that".... he knows that I do... then I will look cheap and easy. I don't want to seem easy and I don't want him to think that I am going to put out on the second date because that certaintly is not my intention. I also don't want to be a tease and lead him to believe something is going to happen that is now. Ugh.... so I guess my question is how much flirting is too much?
Example: He told me he got a sunburn. I said that I could do something to make his sunburn feel better. And he said that alone time with me would make it feel better... me and some aloe. Yikes it was all fun and good but does he really think that something really is going to happen. I don't know I'm being so silly about this.
Thanks folks!

I know exactly what you mean, and I've realized recently that that is exactly why I have trouble flirting with men now.