I think your idea is a good one - pretend you know the guy already.
My secret is to not care what the other person thinks. I do so much better when I just turn off my brain and let myself be me. I have a terrible tendency to overanalyze everthing I say and what the other person must think of me. I am doing better now that I'm making myself stop that habit.
Once I do that, I'm actually a pretty decent flirt. I never thought I was, but I do have some good moments.
UGH - that happens to me all the time. In Whole Foods once, I spotted this cute guy at the salad counter. I wasn't even looking at him, but I was in his general vicinty -- and his girlfriend (he had no ring) literally came running over to him from across the store when she saw me. It was hilarious.
Why is there always a woman already in the picture? Where are the truly unattached men hiding? :)
I have noticed that when I go to the grocery store at night between 7 and 9pm, there are a lot of single *hot* guys picking up dinner after they leave the gym. Of course, I am way too chicken s**t to strike up a conversation but that seems to be when the single guys come out. Just a thought!
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I think your idea is a good one - pretend you know the guy already.
My secret is to not care what the other person thinks. I do so much better when I just turn off my brain and let myself be me. I have a terrible tendency to overanalyze everthing I say and what the other person must think of me. I am doing better now that I'm making myself stop that habit.
Once I do that, I'm actually a pretty decent flirt. I never thought I was, but I do have some good moments.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I decided I was going to try out my theory tonight while standing in line at Walmart.
UGH - that happens to me all the time. In Whole Foods once, I spotted this cute guy at the salad counter. I wasn't even looking at him, but I was in his general vicinty -- and his girlfriend (he had no ring) literally came running over to him from across the store when she saw me. It was hilarious.
Why is there always a woman already in the picture? Where are the truly unattached men hiding? :)
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I don't know, but I wish I did.
Yep. Sigh.
Where is the guy with a cart full of red wine, healthy food and some candles -- just waiting to wine and dine us, eh?
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I have noticed that when I go to the grocery store at night between 7 and 9pm, there are a lot of single *hot* guys picking up dinner after they leave the gym. Of course, I am way too chicken s**t to strike up a conversation but that seems to be when the single guys come out. Just a thought!
Good luck,
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