Flirting 101

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Flirting 101
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Sat, 05-19-2007 - 12:39pm

I was thinking last night.

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In reply to: cl_shywon
Mon, 05-21-2007 - 12:53pm

I think your idea is a good one - pretend you know the guy already.

My secret is to not care what the other person thinks. I do so much better when I just turn off my brain and let myself be me. I have a terrible tendency to overanalyze everthing I say and what the other person must think of me. I am doing better now that I'm making myself stop that habit.

Once I do that, I'm actually a pretty decent flirt. I never thought I was, but I do have some good moments.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Mon, 05-21-2007 - 7:59pm

I decided I was going to try out my theory tonight while standing in line at Walmart.

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Tue, 05-22-2007 - 11:41am

UGH - that happens to me all the time. In Whole Foods once, I spotted this cute guy at the salad counter. I wasn't even looking at him, but I was in his general vicinty -- and his girlfriend (he had no ring) literally came running over to him from across the store when she saw me. It was hilarious.

Why is there always a woman already in the picture? Where are the truly unattached men hiding? :)

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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In reply to: cl_shywon
Tue, 05-22-2007 - 6:40pm

I don't know, but I wish I did.

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In reply to: cl_shywon
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 12:13pm

Yep. Sigh.

Where is the guy with a cart full of red wine, healthy food and some candles -- just waiting to wine and dine us, eh?

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 3:17pm

I have noticed that when I go to the grocery store at night between 7 and 9pm, there are a lot of single *hot* guys picking up dinner after they leave the gym. Of course, I am way too chicken s**t to strike up a conversation but that seems to be when the single guys come out. Just a thought!

Good luck,
YG

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