flirty mind games boys play

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2007
flirty mind games boys play
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Thu, 03-15-2007 - 2:54am

I am so frustrated and confused.

I've been chatting with this guy i'm friends with, and he's been a major flirt as of late. he asked me out, but we work together and i'm not sure i'm ready for a complicated relationship like that... i also don't think i fancy him as much as he likes me.

At times I feel like we have a bit of chemistry and i should give it a chance... but at other times i fear i'm just into all the attention he gives me (our talks, little emails etc.) because it's been a while since i've dated and i'm rather lonely.

If i start something it will be messy and complicated, which is okay if i really do like him, but if i'm just into the flirting, it will screw things up completely. What should i do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 11:20am

Just curious...why do you feel it would be "messy and complicated"?

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Registered: 12-13-2006
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 3:32pm
Yeah I totally have to agree with that and say that NOT everything is always so "complicated" or "messy." Stop overanalyzing the situation and let things happen the way they should unravel. The more you dwell on it, then the more the situation will become sour. Just my take on this.