My ex and I broke up 3 months ago. I left 2 rings there that have a significant symbolism for us - they were the birthstones of the babies we lost to miscarriage. I left them at his place because I was so upset and felt that it would help in me getting over him. Well now I want them back - I have come to accept the breakup and can deal w/the memories, etc. I have called him and left a couple of messages. Does he call me back? No! He's upset b/c he had heard that I said that I hate him and thought he had cheated on me the entire time (which I never said but that is a whole different issue!). I didn't think I was asking for alot - even if he brings them to his job I will be more than willing to just come and get them. But w/him not calling me back I sort of feel like I have lost all right to be asking for what's mine back and it is so frustrating!
But on a lighter note - I called the guy I slept w/a couple of weeks ago. Basically just to say - nothing more. He all apologized for not calling since he has been so busy. I told him not to worry about it - it isn't a big deal. He told me to call him later. Do I?? Hmmm . . . I haven't decided yet. I don't think so though - if he wanted to talk to me he would call me. I was just appreciative that he had at least acknowledge the lack of communication and said I'm sorry for whatever that may be worth.