Funny how things happen

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Funny how things happen
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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 10:49pm
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Edited 8/4/2007 12:32 am ET by rebainmi
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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 11:08pm

I'm just shakin' my head.


You know what you need to do.

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 12:32am

I'm shaking my head too...talk about masochistic behavior. I'm just going to ask the question tomorrow "so why haven't you asked me on a date?". I think I need to hear his response so I can move on with my life.

And yes, it's amazing, never a dull moment there ;)

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 10:01am

And yes, it's amazing, never a dull moment there ;)


I hear ya.

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 5:38pm

Well, I got my answer today. I kept our plans to hang out, i wasn't going to let him know that I was upset and annoyed by stuff, so I went over there and things were fine and I just casually asked him "so I'm curious, why won't you date me?" and he kind of paused and said "I just don't think of you in that way...we've had this conversation before" and I said "yeah, so you'll f^^^ me but won't date me" and he said "that's what we both agreed to, no strings stuff" and yeah, we do hang out and we do go out and do stuff and they are pretty much dates, but you know what? I want actual dates. I don't want to go to bed with him and wake up and go get breakfast, I want to go to bed and wake up and go get breakfast with someone I'm DATING.

So, I thanked him for his honesty and I told him I don't want things to be weird, and things are fine (at least now) but I know that we can just be friends and that's all. I can't do this to myself anymore, it's not fair, and yes, I shouldn't have been carrying on for so long but I guess I just had to hear it straight and that's what he gave me and that's what I need to move on.

God, dating and boys and life really suck sometimes!

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 6:31pm

So you're not going to sleep with him anymore?


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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 7:58pm

No, it's not fair to me and it's not worth the heartache anymore.

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 9:39pm

Good for you!

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Sun, 08-05-2007 - 12:06am

Thanks :) And who knows, maybe I'll have an awesome date with match.com guy on Tuesday while I'm at it!

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