Get the Ball Rolling!
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| Sat, 12-23-2006 - 1:49am |
There is a girl at volleyball whom I like a lot. We are talking and laughing together, but I have to get the ball rolling. What may I do?
Today, when I saw her, I went up to greet her and asked "What up? I did not see you last week!" I found it to be a nice gesture, but I know that afterward I fumbled a few times: One, I was not able to lock eye contact with her during the whole time. Two, I jumped the gun when I leaned in to brush my arm against hers and she pulled away. Three, I could not wisk her away from her friends because I was too self-conscious to make a move in front of people. Four, I was not able to move the conversation into the more intimate, personal topics.
Right now, the problem is that since she is going to Japan, I will not see her for three weeks. None the less, I am not giving up. This girl is mine and I am not going to let this one slip away!

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I think that's the right attitude to have!
About the arm-brushing incident...I'm not sure her pulling away was such a good sign, unfortunately...but I could be wrong - it could also mean she's shy and skittish.
Whoa doggies!
First tip - women don't find it attractive when men try to push their way into their lives. They find it freakish.
Instead of worrying about her being interested in you, flip it around and show genuine interest in her.
If she's interested in you, she'll reciprocate.
If she's not, chalk it up to experience and move on.
Okay, here's dating
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