Ghetto to Golden Boy

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Ghetto to Golden Boy
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Thu, 01-26-2012 - 5:42pm

I met a man today who makes me feel woozy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Fri, 01-27-2012 - 4:36pm

Let me be specific: I am taking a break from looking for men, pining for a lover, wishing for it to happen. I'm working on myself - and making progress!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Fri, 01-27-2012 - 1:58pm

Oh; The old neighbor looks hot trick.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm... too close for comfort and he is

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Fri, 01-27-2012 - 12:58pm
Hmmm...it doesn't seem like you ever have to look. It just happens. I don't think that's a valid reason. You really don't want to take a break from dating, it seems.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Fri, 01-27-2012 - 11:11am

Indeed, I am not pursuing dates.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Fri, 01-27-2012 - 1:54am
I thought you weren't dating for awhile? Or did I misread that?

Anyway, I do think people can overcome their upbringing. It just has to be a conscious choice.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 01-26-2012 - 8:07pm

I think people are capable of change if they want to and aren't doing it to please someone else.