Girl's intrested?
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Girl's intrested?
| Thu, 03-29-2007 - 2:09pm |
Ok now this topic is nothing new but it is something that has been bugging me lately.
I know of quite a few girls that I am interested in. Some are in my group of friends, in classes I have, at work, and have seen some girls at bars I frequent.
In all these situations I have a hard time reading girls and telling if they think Im attractive or what so I guess I just want to know some good signs from women that say they are interested and if I should approach them.

I'm sorry, I can be a little dense. I don't understand this part:
>>I just want to know some good signs from women that say they are interested and if I should approach them.<<
No you're not dense I just type really fast and don't proofread so my thoughts come out all messed up sometimes when I type them out.
What I mean is....When talking to a girl or being around a girl in some sort of social situation (class, work, party, etc.) how can you tell is she might be interested in you....or basically-how can I tell when a girl is flirting with me (on this I am pretty dense)
Um, it's hard to tell for sure. Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there and see if she takes the bait.
However, here are a few possible signs: she may reach over and touch you multiple times during conversation, she may have a hard time holding eye contact or making eye contact at all, she may ask you questions about a possible significant other ie feel you out to see if you're taken, she may come right out and ask you out for coffee, etc. Some of us are bold especially, if we think there is true interest there.
First of all, and I can say this because I've seen what you look like, you shouldn't worry so much - you're a good-looking guy.
good looking?(blush) thanx
Well I can't really relate to anything mentioned so far except the eye contact thing. I do notice that a lot of girls I talk to don't make eye contact with me. Although I didnt realize that might be a good sign lol. Other then that I guess I do just have to put myself out there.
Putting myself out there is so hard though because when it doesnt work I get very discouraged. I guess I just have to keep doing and get used to the rejections and move on.
I am sorry, girls still bat their eyelashes? I guess I am just not a girly girl.
If a girl is interested most of the time you will know. If her eyes are wandering, chances are she is not. If she yawns a lot, nope, not interested. I do the touching thing and I make a lot of eye contact and even laugh at their stupid jokes. Of course I am one of those gals who is oblivious to guys showing interest and ususally do not respond back and realize when it was too late that they were showing interest. So maybe I should not be sharing my opinion!
Good luck!
Well, I bat my eyelashes, but I'm sure not everyone does. I'm a little "unique," as my friends call it. :)
As for the yawning thing - I do have to confess, I yawn ALL the time...but not out of boredom. I'm just always tired. But if I'm talking to someone I like and I'm yawning, I'll still be looking right at him while he's talking and I'll say, "Oh my goodness, excuse me!" But yeah, if a girl is yawning and looks bored, that's not a good thing. LOL
Hehehe...you could always pause mid-sentence and say, "I'm sorry, am I boring you?"