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Gods Gift To Women
| Sat, 05-13-2006 - 5:20am |
Is there such a thing as a guy who is god's gift to women? Can you imagine a guy who is everything any woman could want?
Like a guy with money, good body, good looking, nice intresting job, well dressed and groomed, high society type with good manners and social graces, perfect gentleman.
Any reason you wouldnt be in love with this type of guy?

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I don't think there is such a guy and no, I wouldn't be inclined to date him if there were.
My guy will be self-respecting and therefore know how to treat me with respect, will have self-confidence, will be financially responsible, but not necessarily wealthy, will be physically healthy, but not necessarily buff, will be emotionally healthy, will be continuing his education by always looking life as an on-going learning process. His self-esteem is healthy and he won't undervalue himself by taking a job which requires less than his full ability. He will take pride in who he is and how he presents himself to the world.
There is not perfect guy, but there is a healthy guy... healthy in mind, body and spirit.
Isn't this what you would want in a woman?
Is he also emotionally healthy and available, and able to share his feelings and communicate openly with the woman in his life? Is he honest and a person of good character and integrity who does the right thing even when it's hard?
Those qualities are more important to me than the ones you list.
Sheri
No, there is no such thing as God's Gift to Women.
I indicated that I thought you didnt like me? I dont remember that but it sounnds like something I would say lol.
So I have been proven wrong by my thoughts on what women want... actually a comfort in this case, lol.
I know you guys are right but I still feel in my gut women are holding out for Joe Millionaire or something like that. I guess I should learn to ignore my instincts lol.
We are so not waiting for Joe Millionaire... he wasn't a millionaire anyway.
Personally I just want someone that I can talk to and not get bored.
"Like a guy with money, good body, good looking, nice intresting job, well dressed and groomed, high society type with good manners and social graces, perfect gentleman."
>Any reason you wouldnt be in love with this type of guy?
I can't think of any reason why most women wouldn't want a guy like that. Actually I am mistaken, I can see one reason - You didn't specify "Tall" but it may come under "good body".
No, you didn't say me specifically, but in your women and flirting post, you made a comment like "I'm not trying to make you guys dislike me any more than you already do, but..."
I don't think you need to learn to ignore your instinct, but maybe change the internal dialogue. Bring women down from the pedastol of unreasonable expectations and bring yourself so your self-image is consistent with how others see you, too.
Somewhere there is a middle ground. When your hear negative talk on the internal dialogue, catch it and replace it with something positive... a habit we can all work on.
>Anyway, there ARE some women out there who want the
>guys who have the big bucks and the Adonis looks.
>But those women are probably very shallow and you don't
>want them, anyway.
Yes, and there are women out there who say they want a man with "integrity" and a GSOH (as long as he isn't short, fat and bald) but they are probably lazy and you don't want those women either. But I'm sure there are many successful and attractive women who want a man with the qualities described in the first post...and why not?
Antisexy,
Don't you find it funny that when you fist started writing here you displayed few (NONE) of the qualities that women claim they want in a man. You lack(ed) self-confidence, you have low self-esteem and without meaning to insult you, there was little evidence of a sense of humour. Did that matter? No! Soon after you joined there were women asking for a photograph of you and were throwing their e-mail addresses at you left right and centre to get it! After that you became "Supersexy"....Whatever....
It supports what I read from a journalist who tried online dating. He described himself honestly to begin with as having average looks, a good job, a wide range of interests and was looking for his soul mate. He put up a true photo of himself on the profile and was getting an average of 2 to 3 e-mails per week in response. After a few months he changed his photo to one of a male catalogue model and suddenly he was getting 50, yes *FIFTY* e-mails per week. Some women were professing to be soul mates in the first e-mail even though they have never met!! A few e-mails were from women who checked his profile out the first time but skipped over it! Remember, the ONLY thing he changed was his photograph....Go figure!
As for my experience with online dating: I lost count the number of times I read profiles from women who stated that "Looks are not important" but didn't reply to the e-mails I sent. We seemed compatible in every other aspect so what were they judging me on if not my looks??
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