gosh!! what

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Registered: 12-20-2005
gosh!! what
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Tue, 06-13-2006 - 4:11pm

Ok I have a problem, I think I become attached to guys too fast. I am really attracted to this one guy and he is playing way hard to get, and of course I fall for that. He just never calls when he says he will, and when he does, I miss his calls. It's crazy. I just want to hang out sometime, but I don't want to be too forward. I just don't know how to bring it up. I have a problem with calling and waiting, I'll call and then text afterwards. I have no patience! I wish I could have some! But like I said, I just really like this guy and want it to go somewhere...

What shall I do? Anyone else have no patience?

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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: precious2be
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 4:34pm

I have no patience for guys who play hard to get.

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Registered: 06-01-2006
In reply to: precious2be
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 4:55pm
Most girls go crazy for that kind of treatment. That's why being a player is more popular and successful than being a boyfriend. They know it'll help get them what they want which is us all crazy headed and falling fast - then they complain and call us psycho! You don't worry AT ALL about missing his calls - he's the one who couldn't find the time he said he would, what are you suppose to do just wait by the phone? It's one thing if it happens once or twice, but if you notice a pattern bail out quick because it's not going to be a fun ride.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: precious2be
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 6:06pm
Just play it cool... Guys will think you are needy and that is a huge turn off. Whenever you get he urge, just remind yourself that you will come across in a manner that is not your intention.