Got drunk and acted stupid....
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Got drunk and acted stupid....
| Mon, 12-05-2005 - 2:16pm |
ok so i went out the other night and i got really drunk and met this guy who knew knew who i was and remebered me from highschool i didnt reconise him or anything so he was nw to me..well anyways i got way to hammered he kept buying me drinks and what now what actaully really hit it off but then i messed up i slept with him and left my shirt at his house and he gave me a ride home that night i asked him 2 and now i feel really stupid because i dont pick up guys at bars and go home with them im not like that..ive tired calling him and stuff but now i think hes going to think im a tramp b/c i acted like that andi canbt seem to get ahold of him what should i do? how would u girls handle a situation like this? im scared that somehow this might get around and i dont want this type of reputation!

You may just have to realize that you will have to suffer the reprocussions of your actions. We all do things we regret, and even though you did give it up to him that night, if that was all he wanted from you, he is not worth it - he used you, he's a jerk and you deserve better. Chalk this up as a learning experience (but actually LEARN from it) and your "guilt" will eventually subside. Best wishes
it`s not like you did anything wrong...like no one has been through this??he isn`t talking to you because well he wanted sex,and got it..and just isn`t interested in seeing you anymore...he doesn`t want to be your boyfriend...let it go...you had a fling,it happens,don`t worry about it,why is it so wrong??having sex is a normal god thing,just be careful is all.As for the guy,he didn`t use you,takes 2 to tango,if he does not wish to talk to you,then leave him alone,and find someone who will talk to you after you have sex with him.
Know your threshold for tolerance of booze and don't go over it no matter how much someone wants to buy you a drink or you think you can handle more. Control yourself first. Don't blame someone else for your actions (accepting the drinks). Only you control your own behavior.
The only way to get a repuation is to repeat the episode again. If you don't want the reputation, then go easy on the booze and stick to your wits about bringing someone home from the bar for a one night stand.
Rubyshoes