Grrrr...MEN!

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Grrrr...MEN!
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Sun, 08-12-2007 - 10:38am

So I got up this morning and did the first thing I always do on the weekends- I checked my email.

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Registered: 08-07-2007
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Sun, 08-12-2007 - 2:26pm

Well sweetheart, the only thing I can tell you...

Is we dont get to pick and choose the people we fall in love with. It just happens. I know that if we could, it would makes things a lot easier on us all. But life just doesnt work that way.

And no one ever said loving someone or getting over someone is ever easy. I think between you and I, we could write a book about it!

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Sun, 08-12-2007 - 4:52pm

I know..I know.

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Sun, 08-12-2007 - 8:08pm

There will always be somebody who will affect you more then others.... There is something so special about that connection that just does not happen very often. That is why it is called a connection, after all. Not so easy to cut. So I can see why you have been pulled back into that feeling. Reply. There is nothing wrong with it. Just try to keep your heart a little guarded.

Hey by the looks of it, you had quite an affect on him, too. Otherwise he would not be contacting you here and there after so many years.

Sorry, but if the guy was not affected by you too, he would have no problem moving on and never talking to you again, would he :)

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Sun, 08-12-2007 - 8:20pm

I'd like to think that.

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Sun, 08-12-2007 - 9:59pm
If it was only infatuation, he would have no problem moving on and never contacting you again. You had an affect on him. Whether it really was not right between the two of you, not the right timing, or whatever. There was something special there. I only have the urge to look up old boyfriends that still to this day, hold a special place in my heart and always will.
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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 10:02am

>>Haven't you ever had a guy in your life that makes the irrational seem rational? That you've had such a connection with that you couldn't resist? Who you know is all wrong, but you don't care?

Yep, and it ended with me in tears and he with a new girlfriend. :/

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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 10:13am

Isn't that the way it always goes.

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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 11:27am
It really is....but I read the rest of the replies, and I can't help but thinking if this guy e-mailed me again a year down the road, I'd probably respond. You are right that it could be an issue of timing, but just be careful (I know you know that, though :) ).
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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 12:20pm

UGH - WHY do men do that? And just on the heels of T. doing the same thing to you? GRR.

I agree - I'd have to respond, too, but I say keep it short and sweet and don't get caught up in a long-term e-mail exchange. When you know a guy has that effect on you, that can open some dangerous doors.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 12:40pm
It's all about closure... Good luck!!