Guys: At which point in a dating rela...

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Registered: 03-23-2004
Guys: At which point in a dating rela...
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Thu, 12-01-2005 - 1:42pm

Guys: At which point in a dating relationship do you expect to start having sex?



  • 1st
  • 2nd
  • 3rd
  • After several weeks of dating.
  • Engagement
  • Marriage.


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Registered: 10-27-2005
Sun, 12-04-2005 - 8:12pm

Again, its not as black and white as you put it. It was a mutual decision. If I hadn't had sex with him, we would still be together. He wasn't looking for sex at all. It was something we discussed for a long long time.

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umm ok he wasnt LOOKING for sex at all..yet its what you both talked about for a year? RIGHT..exactly what was he looking for then?I am sure he was looking to get laid..perhaps he didn`t come out and say it,but....
some women are very funny on these boards..they say some guys are nice and don`t just want sex..right ..that guys don`t try to get laid on the first date..ok sure...then you tell me your man wasnt looking for sex,yet you talked about it for a year..hey nothing wrong with that..but believe me,if there was no sex,then it would be different
you dont need to explain anything to me..you like him,you like him seeing you,and like any normal woman,you have sex with him..you can`t date a guy if there is no sex,otherwise you are being a tease,a prude,and that is an invitation for rape
whne i like a guy,i sleep with him,if that makes me a slut,whatever...beats being the virgin who started this thread who is waiting until there is gold on her finger..to me that is being manipulative

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Mon, 12-05-2005 - 10:32am

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