Have you been in my shoes?

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Registered: 06-19-2006
Have you been in my shoes?
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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 3:08am
I dated a guy for about 6 weeks. It ended 9 months ago. I don't know what is wrong with me, but i can't get him out of my mind. Time is suppose to ease the pain but all its done is show me how to manage it. It still hurts in my heart and my gut. I miss him more than i have any other guy i've dated for longer periods of time. I've gone on dates, took up new things, anything you can think of to get over someone. I just wish it would go away. Has anyone else ever been in my shoes? Tell me anything.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Mon, 06-19-2006 - 12:25pm

Maybe there's something about him that you really liked, and you don't think you'll be able to find that again.

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Registered: 04-13-2006
Mon, 06-19-2006 - 4:07pm
When you meet someone who seems really great and then it ends before becoming something serious you can wonder about what would have happened if it had lasted. This has happened to me very recently as well so I am in your shoes even though I am a guy. I definitely think it is because you see something in the person that you really havent seen in anyone else before so you think it wont come along again like shy said. Eventually you will forget though and move on and meet someone who is just as good or better and forget about this person.