He is dating an illegal alien

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Registered: 08-22-2003
He is dating an illegal alien
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Sun, 08-24-2003 - 8:20pm
I really liked this guy...we talked a lot at work and now that I am quitting he told me we should get together and hang out. So stupid me thinks, well he likes me. Later he tells me he has this recent girlfriend and that she is an illegal alien from south america and she doesn't even speak English. Only I find these guys I tell you! But stupid me still likes him. Any opinions? LOL
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-24-2003 - 8:49pm
ummm... are they still together?
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Registered: 08-22-2003
Sun, 08-24-2003 - 9:51pm
Yeah he is currently dating her..the weird part was that he kept referring to her as "this girl" or "my friend, she balh blah blah" and now he's like "my new girlfriend"...20 minutes before he referred to her as "this girl" (this girl i went to the beach with blah blah blah)...i wonder why he hesitated to tell me "this girl" is his "girlfriend". I really do think there is chemistry between us, but dude...this girlfriend of his is illegal and doesn't speak English. Only I would find a guy like this...LOL
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 08-25-2003 - 12:00am
I don't think the status of his gf is important, why do you? Anyway, he probably isn't used to calling her is gf yet so he calls her "this girl" sometimes. I think you are trying to read stuff into it b/c you want this guy. Be his friend...and keep dating other guys...if its meant to be it will and if not, you will find someone else. Good luck!
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Registered: 08-22-2003
Mon, 08-25-2003 - 11:16pm


Maybe it's the type that you are attracted to?

I'm not a citizen, but I'm here legally..and I do speak English, LOL!

Personally I don't see anything wrong with him dating that girl.

Perhaps you feel a little jealous? hurt and disappointed?

Don't dwell on him...you'll find another guy you will end up liking as much as him maybe even more, or better yet fall in love!

One advice I can give you is..Don't ever date anyone who you work with!!!

Keep your head up high! =)