He didn't call...
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He didn't call...
| Tue, 08-15-2006 - 8:59pm |
So this weekend I left a little note for a guy I like, knowing that he would get it Monday. Just a casual...let me know if you want to grab dinner... kinda thing. Prior to now I've sensed that he may be interested just a little shy, so I took this approach so the ball would be in his court and he had an openening. Well it's Tuesday night and I thought I would have heard from him tonight. I haven't, so I'm kinda bumming. My friend wonders if he's busy but he always said he didn't get out much... ugh.
This feeling sucks, I'm sure you've all been there too, it's a bit discouraging. He's the first guy I've really liked since I broke up with my bf 6 months ago. I was just really hoping he would call... *sigh*

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Hal,
I noticed there was an update on this post and I don't want to say I told you so but when a man does not ask a woman out when she has clearly showed an interest in him, there is usually a reason for that. Relationships are a lot easier for me because I take the guesswork out of it. I should be able to rightly assume that if a man has made an effort to ask me out, he is interested in me and he has a genuine interest in getting to know me and if he doesn't, I can quickly work that out probably even before the first date.
Feisty
Hi Everyone.
I do believe that there are some men who are shy, but if he is interested in dating you, he will figure out a way to make the move. Men can be creative. He won't need to "nudged" into doing it.
My experience has been, and it doesn't matter what type of man he was, but usually if I make the first move, it never really works out. I get curiousity, not "real" interest.
Now if the guy pursues me, I have his undivided attention and some "quality" dating.
This doesn't mean that I don't go after what I want, I do.
This is just how it turns out for me. And that covers, meeting in person, introduced by someone, or online dating.
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