Is he interested, or just being friendly?

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Registered: 11-23-2010
Is he interested, or just being friendly?
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 9:00am
I have never in my life asked a guy out, but I am wondering if there might be enough interest for me to make the move. I am a librarian at a university, and one day a student came back to my office to introduce himself. After that he seems to come in frequently to the library to read newspapers. Then I helped him at the desk and we talked a little about 2 weeks ago. Today he comes back to my office and tells me about something he found (we had been talking about where to find a certain German dessert) and where I could buy it. He seemed a little nervous. Should I just go for it? Do you think there is some interest or he is just being a friendly guy? I do not see a wedding ring.
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Registered: 01-25-2000
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 12:37pm
Yes. Do it.
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 2:24pm

Go for it!


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Registered: 05-14-1999
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 6:07pm
If you're not sure, tell him you are about to go on a break or are about to be off from work, will going to grab a coffee or a bite to eat, and invite him along. Perhaps from that, you can gauge his interest in you.
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Registered: 04-15-2009
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 8:08pm
The signs look good, suggest a casual outing, maybe for sad German dessert like cfk3 suggests, and who knows!?? Good luck! :)