He lied!! Whats the next step??

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-16-2005
He lied!! Whats the next step??
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Fri, 06-02-2006 - 8:12pm

Hey there, Just was wondering.... I've been having a purely physical relationship with this guy. I guess i'm getting a little confused.. He gets extremely jealous at every guy that I come in contact with and he tells me how much he loves my company. I am having fun with him and if nothing comes out of this, I am ok with it and will move on. but his jealousy and sometimes his words confuse me. He says he's not flirting, dating, or seeing anyone else but I just found out that he is on a dating website. (it says that he is sick of meeting the wrong people / wrong place) (and I did meet him on this website in the very beginning but i have since left it. not because of him though.) What is that about!! He flat out lied to me!!

Is he doing this b/c he thinks i'm dating other people?? or does he really not consider me "datable"? I sometimes feel he does like me but i don't know!! I don't understand him!! please give me some clue!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2003
Fri, 06-02-2006 - 9:19pm

It sounds like you need to define the relationship, by talking to him. I don't think there's any other way. You say the relationship has been "purely physical" ... but it sounds like you may want more if he does?

I'd be wary of the fact that he gets "extremely jealous" of every guy you come into contact with. That's not a good sign!

carriebgirl