Is he into me?

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Registered: 04-03-2007
Is he into me?
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Wed, 07-25-2007 - 12:12am

So me and this guy have know eachother for about a year and have started to learn a lot about eachother, we talk on a daily basis. And I'm just wondering if he really likes me or if he just likes to flirt with me.

So the other day me and a couple of friends drank, I wasn't drunk just buzzed, and well I was textin this gentelmen until about 4 0'clock in the morning through. And then he was like well "I gotta go to sleep have to wake up in like 3 hours", and I said "sorry if I kept you awake", and he said "don't worry you didn't, I enjoy talking with you".

To me it sounded a little wierd and I was still flabergastd as to why he was textin me still, and then the next morning I sent him a text saying "Good Morning! How are you today?" and He replied "Smiling now that I heard from you."

You think he's into me???

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 11:18am

After a year, if he were interested in anything more than a flirtation he would have asked you out on a date.

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 1:38pm
Some guys just enjoy the attention. They get bored and lonely just like us women. I don't know if he is into you or not, but I do know that I, personally, wouldn't start putting a lot of energy into this guy until he actually calls you and asks you out on a proper date.
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Registered: 07-11-2001
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 4:22pm

No date - no interest. Plain and simple. We would ascertain that after one year of texting, and no mention of a date this dude is just not that into you.

Hope those texts were part of your phone plan!

Beach