He wants so reconnect

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Registered: 05-01-2013
He wants so reconnect
Sat, 08-30-2014 - 6:59pm

So I was recently contacted by the married guy on Facebook.  his opening greeting was "hey you". I didnt answer for a few days. My kinda like friends told me to see what he wants. Sadly couldnt get on the forum for advice. I already know what he wants but the lust, and fun is dead. I replied back and he asked what I been up to, keep in mind i have moved and changed jobs and cars, went through alot of different guys, but he doesnt need to know nothing. My answers are extremely vague.  He asked if i was single (rolling my eyes), i told him was seeing someone right now. He told me his gf was cheating on him so he kicked her out. I was like oh (pretty much i dont care and never aksed for the info, this is one of the girsl he cheated on me with), He then told me they were trying to work it out (like i give a fuk), but she keeps cheating (trying not to LMFAO). He repeatedly gives me his new phone number and asks me to text him to catch up. I was like idk I work alot, he then asks me to text him now, I told him im busy. He says well tomorrow, I say I have alot of errands to run.

Before everything happened we were good friends. I honestly I feel nothing anymore for him.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 08-31-2014 - 12:00pm

Just keep in touch and always have a "relationship" when he calls(excuse for not doing anything with him)  That way you don't burn a bridge that might be useful in the future.



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Registered: 06-07-2004
Thu, 09-04-2014 - 12:32pm

He fishing around for someone to have fun with. Glad you didn't take the bait.

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Registered: 09-10-2014
Wed, 09-10-2014 - 10:07pm

You should completely cut him off from all communication. You don't need someone in your life that is a negative influence. He is still involved with someone but is still looking to use you to satisfy his needs. You deserve the best in life so don't settle for less my dear. Keep moving forward! You will find someone that will respect you. 

Good Luck!