Help me from Jealousy Monster(Ego stroking)

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Help me from Jealousy Monster(Ego stroking)
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Sun, 04-15-2012 - 11:30am

I am sorry but I never thought I was the jealous type but so far sis has been seeing that new guy.. Its been about three dates and although he is a geek of sorts and not her type at all I am jealous.. I never thought I was the jealous type but when I look at her I dont see anyone that great or attractive or anything.. I know I know I am going to hell for saying t his about her but I just dont get it.

I did hear her on the phone last night with him and I do know that she does have a way of stroking a guy's ego. Maybe that is the key to love..... Just being in constant state of ego stroking and you can get any man.. I

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 10:31am

I do think that much of meeting people does come down to luck.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 11:31am

thank you JT.. I am not sure though if I am better than anyone just have evolved and went soul searching for the last few years feel more centered and spiritual .. I cant think of any other words to describe

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 12:00pm

I suspect, Free, that for each of us there IS an element of "right place, right time".

Do we meet the right people in the right place at the right time because we are emotionally ready? If we believe that, then the corrollary must stand true also.

And IF that were true, then the only people we'd meet would have to be ready.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 12:15pm

what you say makes sense and right

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Registered: 09-12-2005
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 5:07pm
freeatlast2008 wrote:

what you say makes sense and right

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 6:19pm

Oh; thank you Anita.. Its just about this time that I have given up because I have for years done all kinds of things.. Singles events, meet ups, bars, golf, dances, dating sites..

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