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help me please!
| Sat, 06-17-2006 - 10:47pm |
so there is this guy that just recently wants to be "friends with benifits"..and he wants to be my "true first". i lost my virginaty at a party a while back and i regret it more than anything!! and he thinks that itll make up for hard times. i dont know what to do...i love him to death..but he doesnt want anything serious! just FUN TIMES..i dont wanna lose that friendship tho..or regret not doing it. soo..any help would be much appreciated! thanks!

Don't do it.
You can't be a "friend with benefits" if you love the person. It will never work. If he is a TRUE friend he wouldn't have put you in such an awkward dilemma. You won't regret NOT doing "it", you will only regret doing "it".
He isn't into you and only wants sex and it *will NOT* change his feelings and make him fall in love with you, trust me. If he doesn't want anything serious there is absolutely nothing you can do but find someone else, sorry.