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| Wed, 01-18-2006 - 1:13am |
hi,
i need some help. :-) i was introduced this guy about a month ago by a mutual friend through msn. anyway, long story short, we've chatted every single day, which i presume meant that there was an interest there. since it was during the holiday break that we first got to know each other (we're univ students), we sporadically saw each other. when school started, he invited me out for lunch and we still continued chatting every night.
this last weekend however, something changed. when he found out that i wanted to go to the musem, he, as i interpreted it, 'volunteered' to come with me. we met up, everything was good except for some awkwardness here and there. i paid for my ticket and he paid for his. afterwards, since i told him it was nice of him to come with me, i treated him for coffee.
anyway, after that, he completely stopped chatting with me. he's online but he wouldn't even say hi or anything, unless i initiate the conversation, which i never did before. it was always him.
when we saw each other in school, however, he walked with me all the way to the next class. we talked and all, but i am so confused. i'm not exactly sure what's going on here and i'd really appreciate if anyone can help!
thanks!
polo_21

Did you ask him what caused the change in behavior?
If you want to, you should ask him why his bahavior has changed.
Otherwise, I'd just assume that he's not interested beyond friendly interaction and leave it at that.