Help! This was sent to me by a guy I really like we have casually been seeing each other and really enjoy each others company

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Registered: 11-24-2012
Help! This was sent to me by a guy I really like we have casually been seeing each other and really enjoy each others company
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Sat, 11-24-2012 - 10:20pm
"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? 
She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. 
She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there."  Bob Marley 
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I totally agree...go for it!
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Registered: 04-13-2007
Definitely "live in the moment" statement. Now whether it is meant to tell u where he stands or is reaction to something that has happened btwn u two only u guys can know. but it is a great idea. It is just a question of what u want / need from the relationship
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Registered: 05-14-1999

This, to me, sounds like: "Live in the moment" which is really what it's all about. If you feel the same way about him then, why not? Go with it!

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Registered: 11-24-2012
He sent this to me after we had spent a really nice weekend together just talking about everything, laughing just releasing all the stress if the week and enjoying each others company. I really like him a lot and would like to work on getting to know each other more and possibly a relationship but he has a lot going in in his life right now I can see.
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Registered: 11-02-2012

its pretty generic...heard it many times before. so im thinking hes not putting in much effort. but u never know what's going to happen. so dont give up on him....he could have said something bad.