He's back at work

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Registered: 05-10-2012
He's back at work
Mon, 08-06-2012 - 5:39pm

And will not acknowledge me.   Completely acts like I don't exist.  It's been almost 3wks.


Yes, I would have liked for him to act like a grown man and be friendly.  No, my feelings aren't hurt.  I am bemused?  Not really sure what I think but I do know that I don't feel much of anything.

After the whirlwind courtship and the ghosting, weeks of my being hurt ...I thought I would feel more.

I just don't.   

I don't think that's a bad thing at all. 

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Mon, 08-06-2012 - 6:33pm
It's not a bad thing. He's probably expecting you to go all possessive and "what happened" on him. Not caring is probably the best for you and worst for him!