HEY ANTISEXY!

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Registered: 11-22-2005
HEY ANTISEXY!
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Sat, 07-08-2006 - 12:38am
Happy Belated Birthday! I read your profile and saw that your birthday was July 2. I think you should post some pics of yourself. Check me out on myspace at myspace.com/marniesb, I'm always up to making new friends.
Take care,
Marnie
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Registered: 04-13-2006
In reply to: mar3006
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 3:55am

Thank you but my bday is really june 2, I accidentally put july in my profile w/out realizing it lol.

I am not a big fan of myspace or facebook.

And not to sound rude, but who are you? I dont recognize your name from any other thread.

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Registered: 11-22-2005
In reply to: mar3006
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 9:58am
I'm just an occasional poster, mostly a lurker. I was bored the other night and read the whole board. I just noticed how you seemed to have no confidence in yourself and I wanted to say hi. Sorry if I annoyed you in anyway.
Marnie
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Registered: 07-17-2004
In reply to: mar3006
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 4:37am

Anti Sexy,

Sometimes, you make me want to tear my hair out! Someone makes a nice gesture towards you and you make them feel stupid. I know a lot of people on ivillage wear their insecurity as a badge of honour but I just don't feel sorry for you at all because I've been on the receiving end of people who have acted exactly as you do. I think you need to take a good hard look at yourself and the way that you come across to people. It's not always about you. You also need to consider other people's feelings and saying you're shy or insecure does not excuse or condone your behaviour.

Feisty




Edited 7/11/2006 4:51 am ET by feisty01
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Registered: 04-13-2006
In reply to: mar3006
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 6:00am

I appreciate marnie's comments she sounds like a sweetheart and I dont think I was being mean I simply asked who she was b/c I didnt recognize her name and if I knew her and didnt recognize her I wanted to know....I dont see what I did that was so out of line. I apologize if I sounded that way ...the post did cheer me up and I found it to be thoughtful of her...I was just asking who she was....I guess I came off wrong.

P.S. feisty...if you dont like what I have to say...there is an option on this site that allows you to ignore posts from certain ppl...use it if you have such a problem with me.

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Registered: 06-02-2005
In reply to: mar3006
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 6:17am

antisexy,

>if you dont like what I have to say...there is an
>option on this site that allows you to ignore posts
>from certain ppl...use it if you have such a problem with me.

This comment epitomizes what feisty was saying about you.

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Registered: 07-17-2004
In reply to: mar3006
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 6:43am

Anti Sexy,

I don't have a problem with you at all. I thought you and I had an understanding :-p When I wrote that post, I wasn't specifically referring to how you reacted to Marnie, more so how you may come across to women you meet. Women aren't mind readers. Whilst you may be feeling shy or insecure and not respond to people and/or walk away from them and brush them off, your behaviour may sometimes comes across as rude to others. I just think you need to be mindful of that and conscious of other people's feelings as well as your own.

Feisty

P.S. Thanks Hal :-)