The High Price of Damaged Goods

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The High Price of Damaged Goods
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Sun, 03-04-2012 - 9:13pm

I admit that at this age, and with my life experiences, I am "damaged goods".

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 03-04-2012 - 9:55pm

I do not believe is the concept of "damaged goods".

chaika

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 03-04-2012 - 10:20pm
I think caviar just sounds gross! But that's just me. Too fussy. I like my chicken breasts or veggie burgers.

I'm kind of an ordinary girl looking for an ordinary guy. I do have baggage, mostly from childhood, but I think we all do. The trick is finding someone you like who likes you back who you're attracted to and who is available that can handle your baggage and has baggage that's manageable for you. (Now that was a long rambling sentence!)
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Sun, 03-04-2012 - 11:16pm

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 2:09am

As much "nothing"? I wasn't writing about the richness of my daily life - I was bringing up the issue of waiting...and waiting...for someone to show up.

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Registered: 01-24-2011
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 8:15am

Don't you crave female companionship?

From the way, you described your life, it feels "empty" to me.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 10:02am

Actually no, I don't think it's a good idea to lower your standards to be w/ someone you don't want to be with just so you can have "just anyone."

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 12:06pm
I second what shy said:

"I'm kind of an ordinary girl looking for an ordinary guy. I do have baggage, mostly from childhood, but I think we all do. The trick is finding someone you like who likes you back who you're attracted to and who is available that can handle your baggage and has baggage that's manageable for you."
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Registered: 05-14-1999
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 12:13pm
"I could be a lot happier being single even though there are times of loneliness."

I have a girlfriend who absolutely cannot be alone. She hops from guy to guy to guy. She's monogamous, too. She'll only date one at a time. I just have never been that girl. Maybe because I had a long awkward teenaged span where I just wasn't very attractive thus, had no boyfriends...thus, had to be okay with being alone? I just don't understand that mindset where girls just have to have someone. I'm not knocking it, as I love my friend dearly. I just don't know what that's like...
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 2:07pm

Never lower your standards.

chaika

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Registered: 01-02-2012
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 2:22pm

Me too, cfk!

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