Him playing hard to get?
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| Sun, 03-12-2006 - 12:23pm |
I have a major crush on this guy in me college class. Heres a lil history about whats been going on: He stares at me constantly in class, he is outspoken with every other girl but me, when I come around he becomes shy. He always pass lil love taps when we bump into each other. We always catch each others gaze from across the room, Sometimes he tries to hold the gaze and stare into my eyes......or often he just makes silly faces or flashes a giant grin. Another thing is that he always pops around the places that I go on campus, or we spot each other outta a crowd from far away.
Lately I have been getting really mixed messages though. Okay, he is one of the hot guys in class so I understand the need to keep things like having a crush on each other low profile..........just to avoid the drama of people in our bussiness. After having this long time crush, I finally got the nerve to hang out with him one evening. He seemed excited that we were hanging out, we talked about class, highschool, he made every attempt to make me laugh, and he was actually really funny. Anyhow I never got to tell him how I really felt, but I felt a good vibe.
Lately, he has not been so flirty, and the eye contact has lessened. But yesterday on our last day of school before spring break, he was extra flirty. He made some cute excuse to hold my hand, was very talkative with me and everything. In class he did the weirdess thing too, he called me over to him to take my picture with his camera phone, he has never called me over to him before. okay all that flirting and everything went on, then after class in the parking lot he calls me by the wrong name, and I think it was on purpose! He can remember precise details we talked about the day we hung out, like he remembers the highschool I said I went to, the year I gratuated, and the city I live in. He actually thought it was funny too. Is he playing hard to get? If he doesnt actually like me, then why stare at me all the time, why flirt and make attempts to touch me, and stuff. Someone please give me advice.

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If you have some college pub, maybe get a group together of your friends and then mention to him that you're doing a pubnight and ask if he'd like to come along. Do some more "out of class" stuff with him if you can.
Well back in high school I would always notice the popular guys first, you know......the ones who played all major sports, was very outgoing and had alot of girls after them. But I was also attracted to the shy and quiet type of guys. Whats so hot about this particular guy? Well I love the fact that he has a sence of humor, for some reason Im into goofy guys( Adam Sandler, Will Smith). I love the fact that he is mysterious and quiet. Im pretty sure a has thought of you as hot, they just havent mentioned it, we usually don't.
I should take the initiative, but Im a really shy girl, it could be painful on my part if I get rejected.
tammarella ,
You said: "He was giving me all the signals that he was interested and so I gave him my phone number."
What were the "signals" he was giving you?
What makes you think he was flirting and not just being friendly?
I ask because I always have trouble determining whether a woman is flirting or just being friendly with me. The answer, I am often told, is to ask for her number and find out! I think it's wrong to say, "Guys like to do the chasing" because it isn't really true, it only appears that way. I could say women like to do the chasing because I have experienced the same humiliation as you did with your "phone number" incident. Only thing is, men are EXPECTED to do this time after time after time….. It's our job, apparently...
Yes, it is your job.
>Yes, it is your job. God gave you the
>balls for a reason. Use them.
I’m touching up my resumé. My balls have been out of work for a while.
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