His Dad (The Cop)... Is he right or not?
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His Dad (The Cop)... Is he right or not?
| Fri, 10-21-2005 - 12:00am |
We have been friends for a while then soon after my Boyfriend (B.F.) and I confessed our feelings for each other, he began attending College. His Dad is convinced that I am a distraction to my B.F. and that he's not doing 100% well in school because of me. My B.F. feels the opposite way and thinks that he is doing what he needs to do. He told me that he calls me only after he is done w/ all school work. I found out recently that this is not always true!
Now, I probably see my guy about twice a week the most as opposed to before where we used to hang out almost every day. We are doing this because we both agreed that his Education is important right now. I in no way want to cause him to flunk especially since I am already finished with College myself but what am I to do? His Dad wants us to get to the point where we barely contact each other and that is very very tough for 2 people that are in Love w/ each other. My B.F. feels that cutting off all communication w/ me will be more of a distraction to him and I just don't know what to do. I feel caught in the middle. What should I do?
Now, I probably see my guy about twice a week the most as opposed to before where we used to hang out almost every day. We are doing this because we both agreed that his Education is important right now. I in no way want to cause him to flunk especially since I am already finished with College myself but what am I to do? His Dad wants us to get to the point where we barely contact each other and that is very very tough for 2 people that are in Love w/ each other. My B.F. feels that cutting off all communication w/ me will be more of a distraction to him and I just don't know what to do. I feel caught in the middle. What should I do?

You are both adults, and as adults, you decide who you date- not his dad.