His GF is Bi? Say Wha?!

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Registered: 04-04-2003
His GF is Bi? Say Wha?!
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Sun, 06-18-2006 - 2:14pm

Some of you may remember my post from when I posted this past week. Regarding the guy I've known for five years and then just ceases talking to me when he is seeing someone, heh, well, I was browsing thru myspace.com where he has his webpage you know, ......his GF is Bi-sexual. Hm, ok, maybe he likes that in women? After reading her profile, her indicating she doesnt want kids and his saying that he does someday, I'm thinking, what do you see in her? *shakes her head* Maybe it's the sex is why he is with her? Ok, I just don't get it, you quit talking to me when you are seeing someone, you date a girl who is Bi and doesnt like kids and,......I just don't get it. Maybe men like women who are that way? I don't swing that way lol, and I have nothing against them, but I'm just thinking, huh? And he has never responded back to me after my sending him a msg last week just saying hello and dont be a stranger. Jerk.

I'll be so glad when I can get him out of my system. I feel hurt and angry at the same time, does that make sense? You just dont treat ppl that way, and I know toward the end when he and I were talking and he was still stationed in Alaska, the late night "booty" calls I got sick of it, and he's dating a girl who is Bi. Okkkkkk then.

I just had to rant sorry, just trying to get him out of my system. Some days I don't know whether to cry or hit because I'm so angry. Thanks for the vent!

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sun, 06-18-2006 - 3:18pm

Just remember- you don't know how he's reacting to that bit of information.

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Sun, 06-18-2006 - 4:10pm
You know, I never thought of it that way and it makes sense after you saying that. I just wish I could get this out of my system, and I know it will take time. It's funny, when I'm at work, i don't even think about it because I get myself so wrapped up in my work which is a good thing I know. If he is into the threesome thing, fine, whatever floats his boat. I know thats what a lot of guys like and thats fine too. But you are right, I'm not sure how he reacts to that and I know the quicker this gets out of my system, the better I will be. It's funny how the past six months I was fine until I ran across his myspace page. I know it will take time. Thanks so much for the advice and letting me vent, it really helps get it off my chest. You've got an amazing board, I ought to come by more often :-)