horny man?

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Registered: 01-24-2011
horny man?
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Tue, 12-27-2011 - 6:07pm

I was checking my messages on pof a few minutes ago.

I got a chat request and I accepted. The first question, he asked was what kind of man I am looking for.

The next sentences he tells me that he is a very horny man and likes to discuss sex.

I told him I will not discuss sex with a stranger and told him

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: misslynn76
Tue, 12-27-2011 - 9:30pm

This has actually never happened to me on POF, but maybe cause I'm older?

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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: misslynn76
Tue, 12-27-2011 - 9:42pm
That's exactly why I don't chat with men. They find it super easy to say whatever they want with absolutely no consequences. I'm sure most guys would never say those things to your face.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: misslynn76
Tue, 12-27-2011 - 11:45pm

When I was on PoF, I did the same thing as you did - just close it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: misslynn76
Wed, 12-28-2011 - 4:25am

The other problem is that you'll get a chat request from some random guy you know nothing about--it's usually something very amusing like "hi"--so I'm over there trying to check out his profile a little to see if I want to chat.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
In reply to: misslynn76
Wed, 12-28-2011 - 8:09am

It happens to me quite often with the dirty talks.

I got a question regarding the "Meet me". I have responded to some meet me links. But I hardly hear back. If they wanted to meet me, wouldn't they write back?

I have also chatted with some nice guys and at the end they asked for my email address so we can chat more. I never hear back from them either.

I am beginning to think this chat thing is not worth my time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2011
In reply to: misslynn76
Wed, 12-28-2011 - 9:25am
I thought this stuff happened to every woman - I'm a guy with a female friend has been online for a few months, three times she's wanted to show me updates she's done to her profile and all three times some new loser has emailed a junior high school style sexual suggestions to her while we were checking. She's in her 30's, has a very conservative profile yet still gets a lot of these. Beer, or the internet, or a combo of both, seems to bring out the worst in guys.
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Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: misslynn76
Wed, 12-28-2011 - 11:22am

So true JT

I am one of those stupid women who from time to time will chat with a guy online.. and for some reason I cant stop myself from doing it.

It doesnt happen that often but when it does I either dont chat or log off .. I know have one guy who i cant seem to stop talking with and I know he only does it to boost or soothe his ego..I can only imagine how many other women he does it too.

So someone has to turn off the chat and then wait for emails from people who really want to meet. because if you block someone they can still chat with you I think.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: misslynn76
Wed, 12-28-2011 - 11:57am

I find those "meet me" links are totally worthless.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2005
In reply to: misslynn76
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 1:55pm

I think people do that simply because the're bored. They just get addicted to whatever website that allows interaction with other people, whether it's a forum (lol), facebook, dating site or whatever.

I turned off the chat option too. If you want someone serious, only reply to those who have coherent profiles and send coherent messages. And of course, even "nice" guys stop replying at some point, not a big deal. And the guy could dissapear after a nice first date, not a big deal either. At some point there will be one who's decent and who won't dissapear.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
In reply to: misslynn76
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 9:42pm

So far my return to pof has been disappointing. I seem to encounter more johns this time