Hot chicks mean better sex

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Hot chicks mean better sex
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Wed, 09-05-2007 - 11:13pm

Do you think that a lot of men make this assumption?

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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 3:52am
Actually it was the complete opposite. I had the hottest sex with an average looking guy and the worst sex in my life with the hottest guy i have ever gone out with. I was actually really disappointed in the hot guy because i had anticipated that sex with him would be amazing. He looked awesome, had a beautiful body and was an amazing, sensual kisser. However, after getting into bed it was over in about 3 minutes. I dumped him after that night..i just couldn't imagine attempting to be in a relationship with someone who was bad in bed. Now with the average guy, sex was really good. We would have three hour sex sessions. He was a booty call and the fact that we were having no strings attached sex was liberating. A friend of mine told me that hot guys are usually bad in bed because they dont have to work as hard at getting girls. Because they are so pretty, girls naturally assume they are good in the sack. Since good looking guys tend to be arrogant, they blame a bad sex experience on the girl and not on their lack of skill. These guys think that just being good looking is enough. On the otherhand, its harder for an average guy to get a girl in the sack. So, they have to learn to be good in order to keep the girl that took them a hard time to get. Dont know if this is true..but it was true in my case.
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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 10:15am

So, they have to learn to be good in order to keep the girl that took them a hard time to get. Dont know if this is true..but it was true in my case.
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This is very true. I have made a lot of effort over the years to “learn” to be a good partner. It sits in my mind less now than when I was younger, but it started with me wanting to be so good I would get the return visit. (-: To be honest I believe that part of my life when active is the best it has ever been. It is also a place I consistently receive complements, and that is rewarding.

What many men never figure out is that a “very happy” woman makes your experience much much much better.

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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 11:05am
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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 11:30am

Ahh...but you expected him to be good because he was hot.

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 10:57am

>>Not just men, given a choice women will also seek out the fittest and most attractive males they can find.

Nah, I don't agree. Evolutionary preference definitely goes beyond looks. If a guy's not the brightest crayon in the box, I'm going to be far less likely to choose him as a mate. First off, I'd get bored really quickly, and second, looks can only get you so far when it comes to survival; intelligence will get you a LOT further.

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 11:18am

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Not really true, I'm kind of attracted to goatees and a little belly! LOL

and then once they have made their way over to talk to me, lets hope they can carry on a good conversation, talk about politics, sports, and be sarcastic and can take as good as they can give.

Smile,

Deirdre

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 11:21am
>>Not just men, given a choice women will also seek out the fittest and most attractive males they can find.
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I also don’t really agree. For “flings” sure, you go with hormones and looks. However if we want to talk evolutionary . . think trophy wife. Women tend to look at societal standing, not looks. How many 50 year old pool boys are running around with smoking hot 25 year olds? How many extremely successful 50 year olds have that 25 year old next to them on the old yacht? I am not talking gold digging here, I think the DNA drive has more to do with security.
Cave man stuff, men planted the seeds, women had the off spring and the responsibility to help them survive . . . insulating yourself from danger then seems logical if we are predisposed to genetic codes. Planting seeds will not work if the seeds don’t survive. Just mother natures way. (-:
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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 3:41pm

In my personal experience, the really "hot" (yes, I hate that word) guys I have been with are much less likely to make my pleasure a priority -- like they think being "hot" should be good enough. They have been much more focused on their own needs.

The other guys - cute, sweet, attractive, but not "hot" - have been amazing. Amazing. ;) I'll leave it at that.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 3:53pm

>> I also find that sex tends to get better when you're with the same person for a while, because you get to know what eachother likes, and when you get closer and fall in love, the sex is just better, anyway. <<

Definitely! I totally agree.

Unrelated, I have to add that I think the hair color discussion is sort of hilarious. We're all different, and that's part of what makes us each attractive -- our unique characteristics.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 4:15pm

>>Unrelated, I have to add that I think the hair color discussion is sort of hilarious. We're all different, and that's part of what makes us each attractive -- our unique characteristics.

No, I get that, it's just when people change what they look like to fit this definition of "hot" that bothers me and right now (in New England, anyway), hot seems to mean (often fake) blonde.