Hotness fades...quickly

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Hotness fades...quickly
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Thu, 10-04-2007 - 7:12pm

Okay, okay...I know we hate that word.

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Fri, 10-05-2007 - 10:37pm

Yeah, she's definitely insecure.

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Fri, 10-05-2007 - 10:39pm

Thanks, John.

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Fri, 10-05-2007 - 10:46pm
you could always do a little research into job openings in those schools and make an off-handed comment as if you are interested in the jobs....maybe it would prompt her to actually go apply if she thinks you're doing it. Then maybe you can have that party a little sooner!
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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 12:14am

i have my days where i feel very unattractive....i have felt somewhat unhappy the past month or so and ive let myself go a bit..put

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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 8:58am

You know I haven't been on this board in about a month or so, and when I got back on here and saw your picture, I thought you were really pretty.

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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 9:09am

I know I look chubby, because I am. I was underweight for my whole life, then got really depressed and had to go on some med's that make you crave sweets. So forty pounds later, here I am. Women are so much harder on themselves then men. Ever notice that they can have pot bellies, no hair, missing teeth and they still try to hit on women. I'm trying to feel comfortable in my skin, but it takes a lot of work. I know that I have a really good personality, but when looks are what define you first, well there you have it.

LIVE IN THE PRESENT
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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 10:14am

Thanks.

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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 10:23am

I'm male and rest assured I do that too - I'm

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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 10:27am
I can really relate to your last post.
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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 12:44pm

Well, for what it's worth, no matter what size you are, things will never be perfect.