Hotness fades...quickly

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Hotness fades...quickly
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Thu, 10-04-2007 - 7:12pm

Okay, okay...I know we hate that word.

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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 1:13pm

I'm with you on the breakfast thing, but I move at a snail's pace in the morning, so I run out of time and end up eating at work....about 2 1/2 hours after I've gotten up, but at least I have it eventually.


And I think of my concerns about weight not in terms of whether it appeals to men, but how I feel about myself.

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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 2:46pm

I want to share something with you all.


Dance has taught me something.

Soliel
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 2:10am
OMG girl, you are so cute! Ive read previous posts where you've said that you didnt think you were attractive. But when you posted your pix up first thing that came to mind was that you were so attractive and not like anything you described. I know it sounds cliche but you have to love yourself before someone can love you. Yes, we don't all look like supermodels and size zero, but damn it that doesn't mean we're not beautiful. For me, working out and eating right makes me feel sexy. Especially when i get dressed up in my tight jeans and heels. Though i work out hard im not skinny, (I have a butt and boobs & some rolls on my stomach!). But i know what looks good on me and how to compliment my body type. Pick something you like about yourself and go from there. I can say that you have a great smile and beautiful hair.
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 11:21am

I just came to this board but I agree, it's weird how our ideas of ourselves are usually so diff. from how others see us. I see myself as being tall and geeky with a flat chest and no sex appeal, but a lot of ppl don't see that. My sis is the classic slim hourglass figure and I'd love to have her body but she prefers mine. I notice a lot of guys go for her instead of me (we are close in age and both single) and I don't blame them. But I do agree that I have more of the model body (though it's not something I am comfortable with). It is funny that way. I really think that the kind of bodies in magazines that girls are going for aren't the same as MOST guys are looking for. Like do u know who Kim Kardashian is? She has a weirdly big butt but I know a lot of guys (white guys) who are obsessed by that.

Jilly

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