How can I assure a call back

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Registered: 03-26-2003
How can I assure a call back
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Sat, 05-24-2003 - 6:29pm
HI everyone.

JUst wondering when I meet a guy at a bar or on a first date HOw do I get him to call me for a second date. Is there any little tricks to it. I mean I usually think we're hitting it off and then no call back.

Any suggestions???

thanks,

Melissa
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sat, 05-24-2003 - 9:02pm
Here's the trick.......Just be yourself! If he likes you and thinks there's potential, then he'll call. If he doesn't, there is a reason, and that doesn't mean it has anything to do with you. Don't make any changes. Just be yourself, relax, and let yourself be!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 05-25-2003 - 10:19am
There are no tricks - just be friendly and approachable without being overwhelming and be confident internally enough so you are not distracted by your nervousness and can pay close attention to his cues and body language. If you need assurance of a call - then the dating game is just not for you - it is an unfortunate part of it but it is a part. also I would stop doing the bar scene - my guess is that on at least one of those times what you interpreted as interest was a guy who had had a bit too much to drink and was being unusually friendly/flirty. Or maybe you were a little buzzed and not thinking clearly.