How can I improve what I am doing?
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| Wed, 02-08-2006 - 11:59pm |
This guy knows how much I want him but he won't give me the time or day. My friends say I have to act like I'm not interested in him. So when I see him, I try to ignore him. When he pokes me, grabs me, etc I ignore him and act like he's not doing it. When he hugs me, I don't touch him to hug him back. But when I see him with other females I get so upset bc he shows so much more interest in them than in me and that even if I do ignore him (or play hard to get) it won't work. But he is known for wanting to chase girls and work for them. I also think it's too late bc in the beginning I showed to much interest...what can I do to improve what I am doing?
Then some have told me to just throw myself at him (which in the past has never worked). It seems like now that I don't stare at him and smile at him, since I don't go up to him to speak to him first, since I don't hug on him...he pays more attention to me.
I'm so confused

What's so great about him that makes you want him so badly?
It seems to me like he's just playing a game with you. Have you taken the time to ask yourself why you're so intent on dating this guy? What do you really know/like about him?
I'm with Shy, I wouldn't ever count on him asking you out. It sounds like he's content with flirting with everyone and getting what he wants that way.