How come?
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How come?
| Wed, 05-24-2006 - 8:02pm |
Has this ever happened to you ladies out there?
Boy meet girl. Boy chases girl. Boy likes girl. Eventually girl falls for boy. But then boy disappears.
This has happened to me one too many times. I don't really pay attention to the guy in the beginning when he's pursuing me (mainly because I'm usually clueless that he is even interested). Then when I finally realize what a great guy he is, the tables have turned and I find that I'm pursuing him or worse, he's gone onto someone else.
Weird.

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Yep. Has happened too many times for me.
Boy pursues me, we have a great time and soon as I realize I am really digging him and let him know, he's suddenly not interested anymore. I guess he wasn't that interested and realizes it only afterhe learns that I care for him.
Just reason #4,369 why dating sucks!!!!!!!!!!
"Do you think this is common amongst men because we as women don't show our interest as obvious as we should? ('Cause you know, most men are dense in that sense, no matter how smart they already are)"
I don't think this is common for men because women aren't showing their interest (I, for one, always make it clearly known when I am interested in a guy). I think it is common because I think there are more men who aren't as interested in emotional intimacy and exclusive relationships as women. That's not to say there aren't any, but I think they are a hard minority to find. Just my opinion.
I don't think they want the committed relationship thingy if they're acting aloof and unresponsive or not noticing you when you think they do notice you. I think for the most part that they're probably exploring other options. They're men. They think alot different than we do. What we're looking at as long term, they're looking at as right now, right this minute and then on with the next.
I don't think men are that dense.
Dating is so fun yet so frustrating sometimes. It always seems as though it's most fun in the beginning, when the guy is actively pursuing you. You receive all this attention and then BAM he disappears.
Sometimes I wish I could just find the person I'm supposed to be with so I can cross it off my list....sounds horrible I know, but I'm slowly losing hope.
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