How come?

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Registered: 05-23-2006
How come?
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Wed, 05-24-2006 - 8:02pm

Has this ever happened to you ladies out there?

Boy meet girl. Boy chases girl. Boy likes girl. Eventually girl falls for boy. But then boy disappears.

This has happened to me one too many times. I don't really pay attention to the guy in the beginning when he's pursuing me (mainly because I'm usually clueless that he is even interested). Then when I finally realize what a great guy he is, the tables have turned and I find that I'm pursuing him or worse, he's gone onto someone else.

Weird.

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Registered: 09-27-2004
In reply to: cottonballbaby
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 5:53pm
Well good luck to you with your new dating venture. Don't feel bad, the year and a half I was with the last guy (which by the way ended a year ago) was a year too long becuase I started to see a lot of red flags and knew that he was not putting much effort into the relationship and not emotionally available. So, at least you are in a healthy situation right now where you do have someone contacting you who really likes you and you never know it might lead to something else. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. I'm having a big dry spell right now as far as dating goes. I hate these times because I tend to get down on myself and feel bad that I'm not in demand now if you know what I mean.....I've felt like all the guys I've been dating in the last few years were never really into me or available for relationships. The couple of guys who have really liked me in the last few years I haven't been attracted to but I'm sure that once I let my guard down and became into them they would have lost interest as well as soon as the chase was over.
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Registered: 01-03-2006
In reply to: cottonballbaby
Fri, 05-26-2006 - 8:30am
Sorry about your ladies experiences. This whole dating thing can suck. I guess I really didn't know a lot of guys were like that. You would think that if they found someone who was loyal to them and they were attracted to you then they would stick around.
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Registered: 05-29-2006
In reply to: cottonballbaby
Mon, 05-29-2006 - 2:16pm
It's the trill of the chase. It happens.

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