How do other ladies handle this?

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Registered: 01-04-2006
How do other ladies handle this?
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Thu, 01-05-2006 - 8:20pm
It is tough being Single.A poster was writing how it is tough to pursue,because men do not pursue her.I think it is just hard toaccept it when men are NOT going after you.Men do NOt chase after me.I am cute,but not HOT.I don`t dress sexy.I am not the barhopping clubbing /partying /type.I don`t put out.Unless there is some kind of relationship.I am a prude.making out is one thing.It is hard,but if i wanted to change my life and be unhappy ,then I guess i could go out and do those things.But I don`t.At 28,it is tough.Men my age so so freakin immature.They want the girls they see dancing at go go bars!My ex used to be such a sweety..but his friends made him out like he was whipped.called him all the time,wanted him to always go out,and eventually he preferred them over me.He hurt me so much I thought he was the one!and when i had enough of his crap,and found out he lied behind my back about things and confronted,he got a temper,but chilled out.We broke up and he pursued a slut type we both knew.Real nice.A guy I work with flirts with me.He has asked me several times if i am going out with anyone.He has suggested hanging out.Why does he do this?we have not yet to hung out,and what does he care if i am single or not?sure I don`t mind playing pool like he suggested.But he is not interested in me,so why does he want to hang out anyway?he knows I am not the type to go home with.We are friends ,he knows me well enough.He knows i have been going through tough time(death of uncle,etc)so he is just nice.Nice friend.Anyways i am ranting.Nice I have some nice guy friends.but let`s face it.If men want us,they would chase after us.When they are friends with us,we are screwed.LOL.no,it is just that we are not the "appealing types"I guess.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sat, 01-07-2006 - 12:33pm

I agree- there are good men out there.

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