how do u tell someone u like them.....
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how do u tell someone u like them.....
| Sat, 07-07-2007 - 1:45am |
hello everyone,
i just got out of a four year relationship due to a lot of things. we live together and then i move out n i move back home. as we move away, i also transfer job. its been about 9 months that we were apart n those 9 months apart we broke up probably 10 times. officially i ended up breaking up with him. about a 2 months ago we broke up cuz i started liking someone. than the guy i like ended up hooking with my friend. but the main point of this story is that i started liking my co worker who's my deparment manager. his name is ben n he's a really nice guy. his mom also works at the same place n i get along well with her also. right now im in the process of training for management. ben n i r starting to talk more than just at work. we talk when we arent working. he's like the geek guy who's into things that im not, but i find things about him that i like. im afraid of telling him that i like him and then all of sudden odd things starts to happen. so do i just leave it be or make a move and c if anything would happen. obvisiouly its fast for me to move on, but im done trying to work things out with my ex n i want to move on. ben will not be a rebound guy. i honestly like him a lot, but just dont know how to go about it. he hasnt had a gf in a while thats wat his mom say cuz his first love broke his heart. so if anyone could help me please let me know wat to do. thank you.
i just got out of a four year relationship due to a lot of things. we live together and then i move out n i move back home. as we move away, i also transfer job. its been about 9 months that we were apart n those 9 months apart we broke up probably 10 times. officially i ended up breaking up with him. about a 2 months ago we broke up cuz i started liking someone. than the guy i like ended up hooking with my friend. but the main point of this story is that i started liking my co worker who's my deparment manager. his name is ben n he's a really nice guy. his mom also works at the same place n i get along well with her also. right now im in the process of training for management. ben n i r starting to talk more than just at work. we talk when we arent working. he's like the geek guy who's into things that im not, but i find things about him that i like. im afraid of telling him that i like him and then all of sudden odd things starts to happen. so do i just leave it be or make a move and c if anything would happen. obvisiouly its fast for me to move on, but im done trying to work things out with my ex n i want to move on. ben will not be a rebound guy. i honestly like him a lot, but just dont know how to go about it. he hasnt had a gf in a while thats wat his mom say cuz his first love broke his heart. so if anyone could help me please let me know wat to do. thank you.

Smile,
Deirdre
Smile,
Deirdre
Hey There.
A Married Mans Opinion (20s). Well lets see. I think what you wrote at the beginning of your post had a lot to do with this. It seems you haven't moved on from your ex. The past should be to learned from not recalled to just remember.
Should i tell him i like him? No Way. A man has to always be the first one to do initiation. You shouldn't have to do a thing. You can flirt of course and drop hints...but dont go put yourself out there and say you like him. Makes it too easy for the guy hahaha. Yea, i personally prefer the challenge. Many of my lady friends have always told me the same thing too.
Good luck with him. =) Take Care.