How do you make yourself go out?
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|Mon, 11-04-2013 - 4:22pm|
I have been contacted by a very handsome man who has his sh** together, good job, a home, etc. and seems nice, unlike the other men I've found online. I know I should be more open to talking with him and hopefully even go out with him. But (there's always that stupid but!) how do I make myself go out when I am totally hung up on someone that I can't have? I need to move on and get over this guy at work (I have always called him MB in my older posts) and dating seems like the logical way. Don't guys do it all the time? And to make matters worse the guy that I went out with 1 time that started this whole thing with MB is coming back to work at my place. I foresee drama between the 3 of us already. I know, I know, that is why I should never have gone out with someone I work with. But I did and it's too late now to take it back. MB is the funniest, sweetest and most considerate man I've ever know and he has touched me in a way no man ever has. My heart aches for him and even though he can't seem to stay away from me he still hasn't gotten over our age difference and I need to accept the fact that he probably never will. So I need to know. Is it wrong for me to date when I have such strong feelings for someone already? We are not dating or having sex, it's just this chemistry thing that neither one of us can deny but yet we never act upon. And if it's not wrong how do I put my feelings aside and go out?