How to keep him interested

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2011
How to keep him interested
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Tue, 12-20-2011 - 10:39pm

Last week I met this guy when I went out for my friend's birthday.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2010
Tue, 12-20-2011 - 11:38pm

This is the 21st century. If you like a guy, there's no reason you can't make the first move and ask him out for a first date.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Wed, 12-21-2011 - 2:02pm

I wouldn't ask him out.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 12-21-2011 - 10:48pm

Ask him out.

chaika

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 12-22-2011 - 11:27am

I think it's funny that the 2 men are saying "ask the guy out" but most women (not just shy) wil say "oh no, if a man likes you, he'll ask you out."

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Thu, 12-22-2011 - 12:25pm
I couldn't agree with you more.
Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Thu, 12-22-2011 - 1:40pm

I think that it's a self-esteem thing for guys who insist that women should ask men out.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 12-22-2011 - 1:44pm

Ask him out for coffee.

chaika

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Thu, 12-22-2011 - 2:53pm
For what it's worth...I just happened to have your post pulled up when my single, 42 year old brother called to get some Xmas shopping ideas for various relatives. I asked his opinion. He said that he's not put off by it. He said the only problem would arise when a woman asks, who he's not interested in which, women are faced with that situation all the time. Anyway, I thought you might appreciate one more man's POV.

If I were to weigh in, I'd say some guys will dig it and some guys might be turned off by it...Whether you decide to take the gamble is your choice but good luck and please let us know how it works out!
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Registered: 12-05-2010
Fri, 12-23-2011 - 1:33am
musiclover12 wrote:

I think it's funny that the 2 men are saying "ask the guy out" but most women (not just shy) wil say "oh no, if a man likes you, he'll ask you out."

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 12-23-2011 - 9:47am

Shy wrote:

"Most men will say they love it when a woman asks him out, but the truth is they really mean that they love it when a woman they are interested in asks them out.

chaika

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