How long do guys wait to call
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| Sun, 11-19-2006 - 5:01pm |
I have actually had a crush on a guy for over a year now (I see him out once or twice a month) and finally last night, I a felt a strong enough vibe between us to once and for all do something about it). (We always stare at each other, giving sideways glances, peaks, etc..) Yesterday, he stood right by me and gave me a huge smile (like an idiot I just gave him a long, emotionless stare out of nervousness). To make a long story short, my friends were leaving the bar early and as I walked out, I told my friend she had to go up to him and give him my number (I was way too scared to approach him).
I quickly left the bar, and as my friend came out, I asked her what happpened. She went up to him and said "my friend wanted me to give this to you (my number) (not knowing if he knew she was my friend) and he got a great bg smile on his face and said he wanted to talk to me and he started looking around the bar. (I noticed when I left my spot to leave, he looked as if he was frantically looking for me, like he was worried I left).
Anyways, my friend took off as he asked where I went (Im assuming then he knew who I was) but she did hand him my number.
My questions are, did this make me look foolish and immature by having a friend give him my number (with me already out of the bar) and also, how long should it take for him to call me if he is interested. (She said she was under the impression that he was very happy she came up to him to give him my number)Thanks.

He'll take about as long as he takes, and that's about all anyone can tell you.