How long do you wait?

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
How long do you wait?
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Sat, 01-28-2012 - 9:33pm
My guy friend asked me this Thursday night. He works with this woman, and he says her only flaw has been that she's married. Well, I guess this week he found out they were splitting. He asked me how long is appropriate to wait before "turning on the charm." I told him he needs to wait until she's at least moved out, but it's best to wait a year after she was divorced. His response was that she for sure wouldn't wait that long and if he wanted a chance, he was going to have to pounce. The options he gave me were an hour? An hour and a half? If that gives you any idea of how fast he was thinking!

So what he said does make sense. We all know we should wait to date someone until they've been divorced and healed for awhile, but who really does that? Is pouncing while she's available the way to go?

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 01-30-2012 - 11:47pm

Wait long enough to ascertain that she is not psycho!!!!!!

chaika

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 1:13am

Ha ha!

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 8:15am

I have the opposite problem.

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