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| Thu, 10-20-2005 - 5:58pm |
Hi
This a question for all the single girls. I am a guy who is wondering how many times is too much to ask a girl out. Beacuse there are different types of girls out there are some that like to play hard to get and some that just aren't interested. If I ask a girl out and she says no or comes up with an excuse, then I always move to next. But I've been wondering that maybe she was just playing hard to get. So hypothetically if a guy were to ask you out and then lost interest after the first attempt, how would you feel. Also if he continued to ask you out how would you feel. We are going to assume that this hypothetical guy is cute.
Any answers are welcome. negative or positve doesn't matter.
Thanks

It would depend on how he proceeded to re-ask me out.
For instance, I was recently asked out by someone I have absolutely no interest in. I said no and have since run into him several times, always feeling awkward. While I don't think I have any attraction to him, I would be flattered if he re-asked me or made an attempt to get to know me better and perhaps "prove himself."
A lot of times I am instantly impressed by unknown facts about a guy that I previously found unattractive- ie: his taste in music or his knowledge of film trivia or of course his sense of humour. So if someone I said no to still tried to pursue me and show me a bit more about himself, revealing his personality and sense of humour, then I may become more interested and start thinking about saying yes. Does that make sense?
Not that I condone stalking or obsessive behaviour- but I think a bit of work to get a girl's attention is most of the time endearing. If she makes it very, very clear that she's not interested, then give up. But show her she's worth a bit of effort :)