Back on the erstwhile subject of Mr Hot n Cold.
It just sounds like he only wants and needs a FWB..
I am wondering what
I would agree w/ free--he basically seems to want a FWB.
What would I do w/out your very interesting stories & man dilemmas?
I agree with Music and I will add that my ex husband had narcisstic personality disorder.. Please be careful as it is a mental disorder and I wouldnt wish that type of person on anyone.
There is a specialist on this and I think his name is Sam Vankin or something and he will go into detail about this. Just google it if you havent already.
It did sound to me like Mr.Smith was only into Mr.Smith. (sorry)
It is hard for me to recall as its been awhile since I dealt with the behavior but it was like my ex only cared about himself and what mattered to him.. Like if he wanted a new car he bought even if the family needed clothes or a washing machine.. He made sure that whatever he assumed he was entitled to he made sure that he got it.. I worked and I had to use my money for bare necessites as food and gas and ex used his for buying oil wells and lots of scams that were just that scams..
He also always made sure that I knew that the house we lived in was his. That he paid for it and that I was a tenant. He would remind me of that all the time.. He would also say that if I wanted to leave there is the door and just leave with nothing just like you came in and you can go and live in the street.. He also whined all the time about how miserable his life was and how bad he had it and well lets just say everything revolved around HIM and him and him.. Even when it was about me it was about him. I remember having to have some minor surgery in the hospital and he said I cant believe you are having surgery and what about me if you die.. Then what do I do.. Find another wife..
So it was always about him and what was best for him.. all the time and how he felt and how he was this or that and everyone else could just go and worry about themselves..
So when it was time for a divorce I had to actually study about npd so that I could get a divorce settlement and I had to fight
Wow, Free, that sounds awful!
Don't you think that is why these kind of people become so successful in business, though, cause they need to focus all their energies on getting ahead?