Hurting and still wondering?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-10-2005
Hurting and still wondering?
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Tue, 12-27-2005 - 2:12am
Ok everyone I dated this guy this summer for 2 months. We were really close and I had met his parent's 2 days after meeting him which was to soon for me, but I did it anyway. Anyway, we ended things back in September because he had found someone new and had started having feelings for her. We still talk online and all. The thing is when we talk online our convo's get deep sometimes and he brings up the past. He reminded me one day when I was talking to him how I gave him this look that showed how happy I was at that time and he will never forget this. He now has a girlfriend and has had one since the end of September. Yet, he still discusses happy memories that we had. One day he even mentioned how he thinks that it was just the wrong timing between us. I agreed to it....but if he says all this stuff does it really mean anything? I mean he has a girlfriend and all. I also won't make the first move, every time we talk it's because he makes the first move. I just don't know what to do anymore because deep down inside I still have feelings for him. Should I tell him how I feel? Should I just forget about it? I feel like there's still something there between us. I am talking to someone else as well, but I can't seem to stop thinking about the guy I dated from this summer. If anyone could give me some advice I would gladly appreciate it...Thanks!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
Tue, 12-27-2005 - 8:57am

You need to cut him off.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2005
Tue, 12-27-2005 - 11:08am
All it means is that he's no more committed to being with this new girl than he was to being with you. That's likely his pattern and the sooner you get away from that, the better. The only thing that may still be between you is his manipulation. If he's keeping you on the back burner, is that someone you truly want to give any more of your time to, muchless your heart? I wouldn't think so. I'd stop talking to him and move on ASAP.