I accidentally touched his PRIVATE AREA

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Registered: 10-11-2004
I accidentally touched his PRIVATE AREA
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Mon, 11-27-2006 - 11:51pm

Okay, so this guy I know and I really like. He is extremely funny and we just click. We met this past semester at school and are involved in various activities. He will tell me "ohh those guys are so checking you out..you ARE single right?" and then he will jokingly say "hey baby" to me or joke that we are going to go out, etc. He also blows me kisses and jokes about getting my "digits." Well I am going to study abroad for a year and we had a get together for me on Friday. I was sitting down and he came to hug me and when he was moving away and I was putting my hands down I accidentally touched his "private area" I was so shocked! He was like "woahh girl.." and winked and smiled at me. I was like "I am so SORRY and embarrassed, I did not mean to!" and he just laughed and goes "don't worry about it." WELL now I won't see him for a year and I am so worried his last impression or memory of me is this! I hope he doesn't think I am trashy b/c it was un-intentional.

First of all, do you think he could be interested? Second of all, do you think he thinks I am trashy or purposely did this? He knows that I am not like that....so if you were in his place, what would be your thoughts?

THANK YOU!!!! :) God bless!

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 9:03am

Nah, I doubt he thinks you're trashy.

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 11:41am

I agree with Stacey on several points. We sag's are HUGE flirts ; ) Also, I think you need not worry about this guy thinking you touched him there on purpose. I'm sure that he knew by your reaction that it was an accident. That's probably why he joked about it afterwards, to put you at ease. As for whether or not he's interested, I think Stacey's suggestion of giving him your number and telling him to call is a good way to find out.

Good luck studying abroad!

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 8:24pm

I think you left him with a really good memory....especially if he does think it was accidentally-on purpose!

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Registered: 09-21-2006
Fri, 12-01-2006 - 4:11pm
I definitely don't think you need to worry about him thinking that you are trashy. From the way you described it, I'm sure he truely knew that you were embarrassed by it. You seem like you come off as being very innocent and Im sure he knew that it was an accident. As far as whether or not he likes you, I think that you should just joke back with him and see where it goes. If you are interested in this guy you should exchange numbers or screen names and stay in touch while you are studying abroad. I think that you definitely have left an impression on him in a good way, and he will probably be thinking about you while you are gone.